Funny how you were everything that I wanted – kind, considerate, gentlemanly, sweet, fun and chivalrous.
But I thought that you were all wrong for me. You had the wrong hobbies, wrong job, wrong friends, wrong background, wrong everything. But, later I realized that you were all right – you thought I was cool; took me places I’d never been; believed in me when I didn’t know that I needed or lacked that belief.
Maybe the cream would have curdled; the sun would have set; the white pure canvas would have become mottled with spots of imperfection over time. All things can’t stay the same. But, I ran before I could find out.
Still, for years afterward, I woke up with your name on my lips. I sometimes see someone on the street with your build or hear a song that takes me back to when we were swimming in youth and possibilities. I walk in the city and practice a surprised expression for when I might see you.
But this is not as much about you as it is about me. Is it always about me? Do others really exist or are they reflections of our projections and obsessions?
Whatever. I wish I hadn’t run. I wish I had learned to stay. Funny how things ended up this way.